Coming Out...to yourself!

Many of us have feelings for someone of the same sex. Some people may not understand this and get frightened, saying that it is bad or wrong. You may have been told that these feelings are unnatural. You may also be unsure what these feelings mean - are they friendly, romantic, or sexual feelings?

Many people are anxious about same sex feelings. And feelings are complicated enough anyway! It can be difficult to come to terms with the idea that you may be attracted to another man yourself. It is important that you try to accept that there is nothing wrong with you. Your sexuality is an important aspect of yourself.

Accepting your feelings can be a positive experience. This may or may not mean that you start thinking of yourself as gay or bisexual. How you think about your sexuality and describe yourself is up to you.